Tuesday, June 20, 2017

First Alpha Billionaire Book Bookfriend long before Christian Grey

Really Pride and Prejudice...was there any doubt.


Fitzwilliam Darcy is and always will be my very first book boyfriend.  This was back before boyfriends were a 'thing'.  I've been accused by many as being a book boyfriend hoarder.



However, I would give up all the book boyfriends in all the land for Mr. Darcy if I have to keep one. You see - the fabulous Jane Austen introduced me to the world of romance. And not just the bodice ripping, caveman claiming type. But those books could have strong characters - female leads - and capable of real life mistakes all the while getting to the Happily Ever After.

I found Elizabeth and Darcy as a young 15 year old girl trying to find summer entertainment. I lived on a ranch secluded in the Northern California Mountains. Dry hot summers without air conditioning and TV was only seen on channel 7 in seven images making me turn to the local library for fun. Now I use library loosely. It was a community table in the small post office.  There is where I found a very well used copy of Pride and Prejudice.

That copy never made it back to the table. I re-read the story so many times.  Hoping that Elizabeth would see the vulnerability in Darcy. And Darcy would see past his own carefully determined world to see Elizabeth.  The characters never listened to me - especially when I told Mrs. Bennett to "hush".    Although I went through what I call Genre Binging, you know all Stephen King or all spy novels,  I will pick up P&P to read cover to cover once per year without fail.

And I'm not the only one.  There are fans EVERYWHERE!

Particularly they are fond of Fitzwilliam Darcy. Ms. Austen even has her own Wiki with a page dedicated just to him: Jane Austen Wiki on Fitzwilliam Darcy



But Fitzwilliam Darcy is the standard which I hold all book boyfriends to:


  • Fiercely loyal
  • Handsome
  • Well learned
  • Loves independence and smarts above beauty in a companion
  • Honest
  • Passionate at the right times
  • Says the right things at the right/wrong times
  • Will admit when they are wrong
  • Able to take care of his mate
  • Allows his mate to take care of him

See although there are many new book boyfriends to be dreamt about, they have these qualities. Mr. Darcy set that bar. 

Elizabeth is who I consider my first girl crush. Strong, fierce and independent. She was Wonder Woman before William Marston considered giving girls a literary role model to aspire to. 



I'd like to point out all gifs and images are of the Pride and Prejudice (2005) movie version. And I believe that Matthew Macfayden IS the best Darcy.  In closing argument, I give you his voice:






Wednesday, June 14, 2017

Hold up...Let me jot that down aka My Love of Lists

Today's To Do List:

  • Do Instagram post
  • Work
  • Do a blog entry

Lists. My life depends upon lists. 

Recently Hubs and I went on a celebration trip. There were lists involved. I had a list for clothing each day. I had a list of important items not to forget. I had a list of personal care products. I had a list of ordered items sent to the destination. I had a list of ALL my vacation lists.  I guess I've made my point: I'm OCD about list making. 

What does this have to do with books? Almost there... 

During a recent discussion about an upcoming event, a bookfriend pondered: 

"I wonder about a BuzzFeed article?"


Seriously a very good idea. So, like any brilliant idea I researched it and found out what it took. 

TA-DA! 

Yours truly now contributes lists on all thing bookish. What is so cool about this gig?

  1. I get to interact with lots of book people
  2. I get to make lists
  3. I get to use gifs to illustrate a point is awesome
  4. I get to make lists
  5. I get to be sassy, punny and keeping just a tad north of classy
  6. I get to make lists

Why I didn't think of this or more importantly, above bookfriend, suggest it before, I do not know. Because I've got to say. This list building gig is a shit ton of fun. Now, in the short time the list building adventure has launched, we have three lists.  And people like them! Because sharing is caring (and the fact that I'm supercited about this), here are the links to the lists:


This is just the start. The ideas are flowing. And I'm listing like a three year old hopped up on 1 lb of Skittles and 12 cups of coffee.  Don't forget the best part -  I get to interact with the book community getting recommendations, ideas to help make these lists meaningful while staying entertaining.  I'm all about the fun! 

You are probably wondering: How can I contribute?  Starting right here, comment with ideas for book lists (or email works). Stalk me on my Facebook page and participate in 'Research Projects' or vote on the polls. Then follow me at BuzzFeeds Community. If I totally f*ck up a list, comment there on how wrong I was and why your (insert topic) should be on the list. Remember keep the comments politely sassy, somewhat classy and always fun! 

I'll keep up the antics here too. So if I have a particular listing adventure, I just may share about it here.